🗣 Suppression, retaliation, fixation, or anger isn’t the answer. Loving yourself is...
This is what they don’t want you to understand. Why? Because they will lose the only thing they believe they are in control of in their life. Which is why they will go to extreme measures for you to stay and slowly lose awareness of the love you have for yourself.
No one can take the love you have for yourself away. You are whole. You can create a new story in your life. You don’t need abuse to breathe when all that dysfunction is doing is ultimately taking your breath away. I know it’s not easy, but this is a sign to know you are worthy of a beautiful life, peace, that you are not alone, and that you can speak up and ask for help.
Know you aren’t alone. Know that loving yourself isn’t selfish. It’s necessary.
I found a way out. It began by understanding hurt people hurt people. And if someone was willing to hurt me and call it love, did they even love themselves? The answer became clear and it was time to walk in the direction of my first love, self love.
I am here for you. Our loving community is here for you. It’s a beautiful life we’ve been given and none of us are alone.
Self love is the cure to self hate. It is the beginning to our self healing and end to our self destruction and accepting someone else’s.
Let’s live. Let’s love.